The Love-Hate Relationship of Writing
Hi, all, Jennifer here! I write sweet (and sometimes even funny!) romances for Entangled Publishing’s Bliss line. I just want to say a BIG thank you to the Butterscotch Martini Girls for allowing me to come blog today!
Writing—especially writing romance—is a lot like a love affair. There is an immediate love and then an eventual hate. LOL! But if it’s true love, you stick it out together for better or for worse.
You’re probably thinking, But writing seems so nice. What is there to put up with?
Well, allow me to share a little of my writing relationship highs and lows:
WHAT I LOVE MOST ABOUT WRITING
1-Plotting: Yes! I love to plot. I think I love to plot more than actually write. LOL! Sometimes I have to make myself stop plotting so I can begin writing. But I can’t help it. It’s like love at first sight. Plotting is where everything about your story is new and shiny. Even your characters names! Putting down a bunch of ideas down on paper gets me excited to write about them.
2—Writing “The End”: Most authors are sad to let their characters go. Not me. I’m thrilled. It’s like going to a wedding. The food was great, I bought an awesome dress to wear, I had a great time, but I can’t do the chicken dance all night. The couple needs to start their life together. Bye, bye. J
3—Editing: Yes, next to plotting, this is a favorite of mine. In fact, I could edit a book to DEATH. It’s getting it all out on paper the first time around that is the hard part for me.
WHAT I HATE MOST ABOUT WRITING
1- The Beginning: Ugh. I sometimes AGONIZE on where to start my stories and usually end up changing the first few pages a couple of times. Okay, more than a couple of times…
2—The Synopsis: Yeah. I know I’m alone in this. Nuff said.
3—The Waiting: It takes so much time to write the book, then you have to WAIT to edit the book before you submit, then you submit the book and have to WAIT to hear from your agent or editor, then WAIT again for it to go through the process of preparing it to be published and marketing it. UGH. Pure agony!!
But all in all, writing is worth the extreme highs and lows and although it’s a very draining process, I still wouldn’t break off this relationship for anything.
I guess it’s true love. J
What about you?
If you are a writer, what do you love most about writing? Hate most?
If you’re a reader, are you surprised writing can make an author so dizzy?
Jennifer Shirk has a bachelor degree in pharmacy-which has in NO WAY at all helped her with her writing career. But she likes to point it out, since it shows romantic-at-hearts come in all shapes, sizes, and mind-numbing educations.
She writes sweet (and sometimes even funny) romances for Samhain Publishing, Amazon/Montlake Romance, and now Entangled Publishing.
Lately she’s been on a serious exercise kick. But don’t hold that against her.
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Jennifer’s next release, Wedding Date for Hire, is coming to a e-tailer near you October 12th!
Maddie McCarthy is single, between jobs, and (oh, the shame) lives with her mother. To make matters worse, she’s the maid of honor for her sister’s wedding, and desperately needs a date. Then she sees her salvation—Match Made Easy, a service for women in Maddie’s exact position. If she can’t find a boyfriend, she’ll do the next best thing…
Trent Montgomery isn’t actually part of Match Made Easy. He’s just doing a favor for his cousin, but one look at the blonde who hired him, and he’s totally hooked. Now Maddie thinks that the attraction sizzling between them is just “part of the package.” And Trent is running out of time to prove to her that her date-for-hire might just be her happily-ever-after…
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Wedding Date for Hire sounds really cute! Love the part about Maddie living with her mother. LOL I can relate. My daughter boomeranged back at more doorstep.
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Great to have you here, Jenn. I can totally relate to the WAIT times. It’s something that really sticks in my craw because while we’re waiting, so are our fans who want that next book. But it’s the necessary evil of writing and I guess as east coasters, we need to learn patience. Yeah, right! 🙂
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I must agree…synopses are tools of the devil! The think I hate more than that is copy edits. A whole lot of copy editors aren’t really familiar with erotic or paranormal so I can get some very interesting and frustrating copyedits back! But I LOVE book signings because I get to interface with readers and talk about some of my favorite things…books! 😉
Thanks for visiting us today!
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Thanks so much for having me today!
I love writing action scenes. The more action scenes and the dark and grittier the are, the better. 🙂
Enjoyed your post!
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Love the post….. looks like a great read!